This blog post is important because we will give the necessary answer to a “Transphobic” man (you identify yourself as a woman, but sorry, I prefer to call you a man. I hope you are not offended?) who definitely disturbs me a lot and writes very harsh sentences with arrogance and humiliation hidden under his innocence and says that he does it with good intentions, but first you should read everything.

Transphobic – 1

The fact that you are a teacher, that you are 38 years old, that you live in America, that you have traveled to 36 countries does not mean that your ideas are correct.

My First Defence ⭐️

I think I’ve given the answer, a very eloquent answer and one that should silence any intelligent person.

I don’t know what to say, but HE is talking gibberish.

ME -2-1🔥🔥🔥 ...

ME 2-2. 🔥🔥

Transphobic 3 →GOD… PLEASE 😭😭😭

You have to shut up now.

I think you understand everything perfectly. Now I have to write the harshest words I can. We have to tell people, sometimes in a sad way, that they should not go beyond the limits.

Scientific knowledge is not achieved by just listing statistical ratios, but by properly analyzing the context of these ratios. Unfortunately, arguments based on superficial, distorted, and contextually disconnected data like yours cause great harm not only to knowledge but also to human lives. This attitude is not based on scientific, ethical, or human foundations.

Firstly, many of the studies you cite regarding “detransition” rates are either controversial within the scientific community or are studies with limited samples and weak methodology. For example, Lisa Littman’s work has received serious criticism in the academic world, and the concept of “Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria” is not accepted as a scientific diagnosis. The studies you present as “proof” are more ideological publications serving specific agendas.

If you truly wish to look at scientific data, here are some points you should know:

A large-scale study published by the American Journal of Psychiatry in 2022 shows that suicide rates significantly decrease after gender transition. Research published in prestigious journals such as The Lancet and JAMA Psychiatry reveals that the mental well-being of transgender individuals significantly improves during the transition process.

Thus, generalized claims like “transition causes regret” are far from scientific reality. What you are doing is twisting statistics to prove not scientific truth but your personal prejudices.

Additionally, trying to guide me with your “make peace with your biological body” rhetoric is a typical example of psychological violence. Because I am already at peace with my body. The problem is not my body, but the aggressive gaze directed at it from the outside. Thinking that my identity is the result of the trauma I have lived through places you far below even Freud in intellectual terms. I did not become transgender because of what I went through; I was already transgender, and what I went through was the consequence of trying to exist in a society that attempted to suppress my identity.

Behind your false “helping hand” rhetoric lies a desire for superiority, condescension, and suppression. The intellectual nuance you attempt to add to it does not make you more convincing; it simply makes you more insidious.

Moreover, when you advise me to “build your life in America,” while simultaneously claiming that I hate my body, you fall into contradiction and try to lecture about a life you know nothing about. This is classic “civilization complex” and Western-centric arrogance.

And finally, know this: Every argument you think you are presenting for the first time, I have already questioned, defeated, and knocked out in my mind long before you even voiced it. People like me survive not because of people like you, but despite people like you.


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Sources:

1. Regret after Gender-Affirmation Surgery: A Systematic Review and Meta-analysis

> Bustos, V. P., Bustos, S. S., Mascaro, A., Del Corral, G., Forte, A. J., Ciudad, P., & Djohan, R. (2021). Regret after Gender-Affirmation Surgery: A Systematic Review and Meta-analysis of Prevalence. Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery – Global Open, 9(3), e3477.




2. Study on regret rates after Gonadectomy

> Wiepjes, C. M., Nota, N. M., de Blok, C. J., Klaver, M., de Vries, A. L. C., Wensing-Kruger, S. A., … & Gooren, L. J. G. (2022). The Amsterdam Cohort of Gender Dysphoria Study (1972–2015): Trends in Prevalence, Treatment, and Regret. The Journal of Clinical Endocrinology & Metabolism, 107(10), e4261–e4271.




3. Comprehensive review on regret rates in transgender individuals

> Associated Press. (2021). Regret over transgender treatment is rare, studies show. Associated Press.




4. Meta-analysis on well-being of transgender individuals post-transition

> Cornell University. (2017). What does the scholarly research say about the well-being of transgender people? What We Know Project.




5. Evaluation on the uncertainty of detransition and regret rates

> Society for Evidence-Based Gender Medicine (SEGM). (2021). Regret after Gender Transition: What is the Real Rate?